If you one raise the child and seriously worry, kind of ""mother's darling"" did not grow up from him, it is necessary to put a lot of effort to bring up the son of whom you can be proud.
Instruction
1. You are respectful to men. Do not allow negligence and their ridiculing. Abusing the child for offense, do not offend, and do not throw a remark: "What you are an idiot!", "Well for the numskull!", "Still I would listen to you!". Constantly let the son know that you are ready to listen to his opinion. Trust it housework even if it still not too well carries out it.
2. You do not fuss and do not lament if the child was traumatized (hurt a knee, ripped a skin on elbows), treat the wound and take an interest in circumstances of incident. You praise if the child does not cry, and suffers from pain.
3. You teach it to give way in public transport to elderly people, and with age – to help the grandmother neighbor to inform of a bag the apartment, to descend behind medicine. Accustom him to show consideration for girls and women: to help on with the coat, to congratulate on a holiday, etc.
4. Discuss with it movies, books where there are worthy examples men for imitation or on the contrary negative characters. Do not impose the point of view. Listen carefully to the son, trying to understand the course of his thoughts. Try that in an environment of the boy there was a worthy man who would become for it authority on men's affairs. It can be the uncle, the grandfather, the trainer, your fellow worker. Encourage the interest of the son in technical devices. Trust it "men's" housework: to hammer a nail, to take out garbage, to repair the iron.
5. Care for physical health of the child. Write down it in sports section. Pick up that type of sport or physical activity which will be pleasant to the child. Accustom the child to independence. Campaigns to mountains, river rafting, change in sports summer center – excellent means of maturation. And the ability to prepare at least today's specials, will help to vacuum and wash things in your absence great to it in further life.
6. Involve the child in drawing up the budget. He has to have an idea, what income at you and as money is distributed. Discuss with it what it is better to spend money for: on the new computer or a trip, on repair of kitchen or new clothes. Do not forbid the child to work. The real man has to be able to earn money if there is such opportunity.