Each parent wants to be proud of the child. The rare father will not redden from pleasure, having heard: "The excellent boy at you grows!" Here it is only not so simple to bring up really "the wonderful guy". What it is necessary to pay attention to if you raise the son?
It is required to you
- sea of parental patience, love and respect for own child.
Instruction
1. Diligence and economy – valuable male quality. Be not afraid to give to the boy the presents the hammer and nails, a shovel, the axe and other tools. He not only will gain useful skills and will become the housekeeper, but also will tower in own eyes. So great to be on an equal basis with adult men - to build the house, to cut firewood, to repair the car, to make a fire. Yes you never know interesting and main thing of the "real" male occupations?
2. You make thrifty use of its things even if it is rusty nails. You do not hurry to throw out that to so expensively boyish heart. Happens that among anything, in your opinion, stuff in a box of the son there will be a necessary thing – a delay to tie up the broken ficus, the battery for kitchen hours, some fanerka to prop up the unsteady table.
3. Show interest in life of the child, meet his friends, invite them on a visit. Try that the situation in the house was sincerely confidential. It is not terrible if children slightly spoil to you an interior, but they will get used that it is not necessary to be afraid of adults. And, having become teenagers, will not hurry to hide from parents in some gate.
4. Machines and toy guns, undoubtedly, are necessary. But there are also other boyish toys which will carry away both younger, and senior children. For example, the electronic designer from whom it is possible to collect a dictophone or radio, sets for young chemists and physicists. Microscope, telescope, vyzhigatelny device, chess, Lego... Look narrowly, dear mothers – the world of boys is not so poor on interests!
5. By all means find some additional class for the son. It can be rock-climbing, sailing, woodcarving, a photo or radio circle, modeling, club of young traffic inspectors and so forth. To stay at home and to do nothing – abnormally for the boy to whom the nature ordered to be "cheerful, impudent, noisy". Send him to the sports section which is equitable to its abilities and interests. It is the best of all if the man is a trainer there. Modern children with interest have female pressure, starting with nursery of kindergarten.
6. Accustom the boy to accuracy and cleanliness. These qualities are important not only for girls: at men they are defining in a difference of two concepts – "man" and "man". Besides in construction, driving of the car or, for example, fishing, the accuracy costs not on the last place. Try to put some idea to the son that it is not a shame to wear a fresh glazheny shirt (as the little girl!) and to wash hands before food. It is a shame to real man to live in dirt. James Bond even after falling in a pool does not lose the luster, by the way.
7. Do not try to hold the boy near the skirt, excessively sponsoring him from world around misfortunes. Real men grow up from the real boys – from bruises and cones, from sticks and slingshots, from penknives and explosions in a chemistry office. They are also interesting to those – boys.