At some stage of development of the kid you begin to notice that it cannot concentrate the attention on those things which you demand from it. For example, you can call several times the child, and he pretends as if he does not hear you at all. Or you can repeatedly remind the kid that he has to remove toys the room, however all and will remain on the place. What does it mean? The kid ignores you or cannot cope with feeling of absent-mindedness?
Of course, both options are not excluded. But we will focus on the frequent children's issue – absent-mindedness of attention. In this case the child does not satisfy your requests, kind of not specially. The reasons can be a little here. First, it can demonstrate congenital features of nervous system. Secondly, the kid can adapt thus to normal conditions after the postponed disease. Thirdly, the absent-mindedness can progress especially at those children who lead an inactive life.
To help the child to overcome absent-mindedness, try to take the following advice of psychologists. For a start it will be useful for parents to know that the ability of concoction of attention appears at kids not at once. As a rule, it occurs aged from four up to five years. During this period the child can carry out several cases at the same time, paying them so much attention how many it is necessary. In other words, be sure that, being engaged in a molding, your kid perfectly hears and adequately perceives your "additional" request.
The child is capable to keep the attention a long time that it is interesting to it. This important condition at fight against absent-mindedness. Try to make classes and games of the kid fascinating and unusual. So he will independently watch the events. However not all household tasks of the kid can be considered fascinating. For example, what tricks would not think up mom for cleaning from a floor of toys, it can bother children. Here the way of derivation of attention or its switching to other activity can help. In other words, if you see that your child was tired of a molding, viewing cartoons, a game in dolls – read together the book.
And one more effective way of fight against absent-mindedness. Try to comment as often as possible in the presence of the child on the actions. So you make the mini plan for yourself and the kid on certain periods of time. Subsequently the kid will get used to such planning and pronunciation about himself important issues. Thanks to such way the kid will begin to forget and miss performance of important tasks less.
If you feel that the absent-mindedness at your kid increases, and the offered methods have no action, everything means much more difficult. In that case you need to address the good expert who will help you to cope with this problem.