In life often it happens so that the person falls in love with the one who does not pay attention to him at all. Especially painfully similar situation is endured in youth. Not without reason about the eternal drama of discrepancies so many youth books and movies are created. But it is not always necessary to reconcile to destiny, to attract attention the pleasant person quite really.
More often in a similar situation there are after all girls: they are more emotional, vulnerable and, besides, they have less opportunities to show an initiative. However it is always possible to try to push gradually to actions an object of the sympathy. But, of course, for a start it is necessary to interest it.
Before starting actions, it is necessary to be defined that is wanted by the girl: to be predominating in the relations and to try to obtain everything by means of own efforts or to become gentle and charming creation which will be protected and preserved. The second option, perhaps, after all is more attractive.
To achieve the desired objective and to allow the young man to win itself, it is required to put a lot of effort. For a start does not prevent to learn whether he has a girl. If he meets someone, it is the best of all to stop trying. It is known that on others trouble of happiness you will not construct.
If the young man is free, it is necessary to find out what his interests and in what places he most often is. It can be the gym or club on interests. In that case, the girl it is quite good as though accidentally to appear there, it is desirable, not one, and in the company. At the same time it is better to notice an object of the sympathy not at once and too kind of accidentally. If there is an opportunity, once you observe, he communicates with other people, especially with mom, the sister or girls with whom he together works or studies. From these observations it is possible to draw a conclusion what address can be expected from it and whether it is necessary to try to obtain it. Sometimes the girl tries to attract interest from the young man, creating illusion that she already meets someone. So she wants to show it the appeal and "demand". Actually, it is not necessary to do it. The decent person can just step aside even if the girl really interested him. It is always necessary to try to be in the public eye, however it does not assume persistence at all. Just it is necessary to be active not to allow the young man to forget about the existence. In communication with it it is always necessary to be friendly and benevolent and at the same time to behave quite naturally. Certainly, it is always necessary to keep endurance and patience. Let everything go a natural way. Joint trainings or other actions can always give the chance of communication. The girl should be interested as much as possible in life of the young man, to find the general subjects for a conversation, as required releasing deserved praises. Special attention to their person is pleasant to men. Having attracted attention the young man, it is necessary to give time to develop to its feelings. If the guy and the girl has common ground, and she will manage to make the society pleasant for it, he soon will begin to act.