Children are beings with open soul. They sincerely enjoy all good and very hard transfer abuse, shouts, misunderstanding. Adults often do not notice what harm they do to little people the behavior. And parents have to understand that they are responsible for children. So, and for their mental health.
Instruction
1. Try not to shout at the child. Children, especially preschool age, very often play pranks. And sometimes at the loving mothers and fathers tired of a set of pranks, patience just is over. There is an unpleasant thing: they break on shout and begin to remember all sins of the child or even to compare it to some ideal neighbour's boy (girl) that can promote formation of complex. If similar became regular to happen to you, learn to calm down and if necessary "to get it together". Acquire the truth: splashing out the evil on the child, you never explain anything to him. Thus, he can be frightened only strongly. And in a little head there will be an image of parents monsters. Of course, the severity has to be present at education. But in everything it is necessary to know when to stop.
2. You are not sparing with praise. For some reason in life often happens so that the attention is focused on bad affairs, and on good - no. And kind words mean to children much. They help to understand that it is necessary to aspire to the best, give to little men a reason to be proud of themselves and the acts. And when the child not only made something positive, but also made any independent decision, it especially needs to be praised. It is prepared for adulthood, since small. And a task of parents in this case is support.
3. You seek to talk to children as much as possible. You have to understand the child(children), cause trust, penetrate into all problems and seriously treat them. The friendly relations with parents help to strengthen children's mentality. Also do not forget that you are an example, a model of imitation. And any negative effect (for example, scandal with someone from relatives) can negatively affect the little person. In general the peace situation in family makes children quiet and balanced. Remember that in your forces to keep their mental health.