Education of the child - difficult and long process with many difficulties and obstacles in a way. Parents not always cope with the stress connected with education. Sometimes, they break on own child, shout and swear on him. For avoidance of similar situations it is worth getting it together and to remember some moments.
Instruction
1. Find time for yourself. Mothers and fathers still of small kids at most of attention pay to the child, forgetting about the requirements and interests. Over time concentration of attention develops into tension, and parents break rage on the kid. In order to avoid such situations divide obligations for child care, resort to the help of grandmothers for release of a couple of hours in a week. Go to walk, to restaurant or do favorite thing in silence. Change of a situation will positively affect your relations with the child.
2. Release a negative. When you feel that you just about begin to boil, do any manipulation for an exit of negative energy. Tear the sheet of paper into small pieces, beat a pillow. If difficult relations with the child dragged on, try to do at least once in a week sports. For this purpose it is not always necessary to leave the house. Physical exercises will help to be loaded with positive power, having got rid of negative. And joint classes in additives will bring together you with the child.
3. Think up "emergency brake". The bad behavior of the child threatens you with failure. In order to avoid it think up to yourself a phrase or action which will indicate to you that time to calm down and constrain shout came. "Calm down, this is your child and you love him" will help to stop an anger stream. Try to put also big beads in a pocket and to finger them at the right time.
4. Spend on drink soothing medicines. Nervous system not always maintains long tension. Address soothing medicines on a natural basis (valerian or a motherwort).
5. Agree with the child. If your child already grew up and understands that shouts of parents - it is abnormal, agree with him that at the conflict moments he has the right to stop you. He can tell "Mom, it is not necessary to shout at me" or to defiantly clamp ears. After that you apologize for the fact that raised the voice and continue a conversation in quiet tone.
6. Translate the conflict for fun or a game. Difficult situations happen in any family. The loving parents will always find a way to smooth them. You do not shout at the naughty child, and make or tell something ridiculous and amusing. Run for the kid with a frightening face or call him "the freckled red mullet". Joint laughter will improve situation.