To make of the child of the leader is that task which is set for themselves by any responsible parents. Of course, from the best motives. Desire to see the child successful, coping with difficulties and provided is a normal dream for each child. Besides, in modern society there is a leadership promotion, that is all believe that only the person with leadership skills can achieve achievements in life.To make of the child of the leader is that task which is set for themselves by any responsible parents. Of course, from the best motives. Desire to see the child successful, coping with difficulties and provided is a normal dream for each child. Besides, in modern society there is a leadership promotion, that is all believe that only the person with leadership skills can achieve achievements in life.
For a start it is necessary to mention two very important things:
- Successful in life can be only leaders. For example, some person can not have by nature charisma or aggression, but can be the excellent expert in that or areas, thereby becoming the successful leader in a certain business.
- Family education is most not too that leadership education. Family education is, first of all, an education and formation of the personality, disclosure and improvement of what the child has. The child can quite not have leadership skills so leadership can be not in that way.
And still, how to help the child to become the leader if he is predisposed to it?
This leader the one who is able to make decisions. The leader has to lead and know for sure where he should go. To develop such quality, it is necessary to train in the child skill of decision-making. The child has to decide – what exactly to him to dress, where to send for walk or what toys to him to play. If you see a situation at which the child will be able to make the independent decision, ask his opinion or keep silent, giving it the chance to make a choice independently. Of course, you can challenge some decisions which or time to health, or beat finance, but the point is that the more decisions he will be able to make, the better.
The leader – the responsible person. In adulthood it is necessary to be responsible not only for itself and the acts but also and to feel this feeling in relation to those who follow the leader. It is clear, that irresponsible decisions can do much harm to people, and it is necessary to be responsible for each of them personally to the leader. It is necessary to let the child know it while the price for irresponsibility is still rather small. If the child made any decision incorrectly, but he can bear responsibility – grant to it the right for a mistake. For example, he does not want to do homework, then it is necessary to remind once that he has to make them as soon as possible that both to take a walk, and to get enough sleep. But only once. If he does not make them in time, he will late go to bed, he will not get enough sleep, he will be sleepy tomorrow, will hard awake him. All this will be, but nobody died of it. But, but the child will understand that it is necessary to time correctly on work and rest.
The leader – the person understanding. The true leader has to be able to lead people and to operate collective so it is necessary to pay special attention to adaptation of the child in the social plan. It is necessary to analyze together with the child the conflicts and difficulties which occur between him and other teenagers, together with him to think out various behavior models and to praise him if he does right thing. It is necessary to give to the child an opportunity to try sections, circles, competitions if, of course, they are interesting to the child.
The leader – the person with the raised self-assessment. Remember that the leader always has to be self-assured also in the forces. He has to sustain the competition and criticism, to be able to cope with mistakes and to be able to convince others. To bring up a self-assessment, it is always necessary to note each its achievement and to support it. But it is necessary to praise skillfully too, that is only when he really tried and made considerable efforts, but not just like that, idle. Otherwise, it will be already self-confident person whom to live will cruelly beat.
Attention! If the child does not show any leadership skills, you should not change him because then the child will feel defective, restrained and even defective.