Shouts, stamping by legs, crying … these symptoms are known to many parents, but not all know how to cope with them. Meanwhile, there are simple and effective methods which will allow to cope with similar situations.
It is necessary to fight against the child's hysterics as the character of the person is built up at children's age. The habit to try to obtain the desirable by means of hysterics gradually will develop into a habit to try to obtain the desirable scandals and threats. Neither children, nor adults will want to communicate with such person.
Methods of fight against the child's hysterics
It is possible to fight against hysterics in different ways, we will consider several most widespread and effective.
- It is possible to try to persuade to calm down quietly the child, but this method only works when receiving not toys or frozen, and parental attention was the purpose of the child.
- Not to pay attention. This option has the right on existence only at home, on a visit or in crowded places the crying of the child will cause irritation of people around.
- Sometimes it is worth punishing for the child's hysterics, but not physically. In this situation it is better to send the child to other room or to stand in the corner.
- It is necessary to accustom the child that the crying he will achieve nothing but only he can lose pleasures (the TV, walk, sweets and not only).
Ways of prevention of hysterics
If you long indulged the child's whims, then for a short time to get rid of them it will not turn out as by five years he already develops behavior models of the house, on the street, on a visit and not only.
Parents have to explain to this age to the child that on the street it is impossible to shout, cry loudly, it is necessary to talk politely to people, etc. Do not hope that the child himself to everything will guess. Children always look at behavior of the parents therefore it is not necessary to explain to the child one and to arrive in a different way. In this case no talk and explanations will help, the child will make as well as you.
Having shown patience in education, you will be able to save also yourself, and the child from crying and hysterics at the slightest pretext. But in any rules there have to be exceptions. In some situations in the attitude towards the child it is necessary to show care and sympathy even then when he is capricious. It is possible to refer adaptation to the new environment, moving, new collective, departure of parents for a long time to such situations, etc.