If during teenage maturing, there were problems with behavior of the child, advice for parents will help.
Instruction
1. The behavior of the teenager leaves much to be desired, reconcile to what to be at war with it it is useless, you will come across reciprocal aggressive to reaction and a bigger aspiration to do everything counter to parents. If scandal is started and the teenager begins to behave violently, quietly leave the room, without allowing scandal to inflame. You remember, your main weapon, this patience, teenage age does not last eternally, all this will pass.
2. It is not necessary to interfere with private life of the teenager. Until you see obvious threat for his health or life, stop to control, it very much irritates the teenager, he will even more be closed from you. Just let know that in case of need you always are near, are open for communication. Having shared with you problems, the child will not meet charges and criticism but only I will support also necessary assistance. Wait until the child comes to you.
3. Communicate with the teenager as equals. The inadequate, rough behavior from its party can arise from his desire to ego-trip, show and prove everything that he already the adult does not need persuasive guardianship of parents at all therefore in every possible way pushes away them. Therefore be interested in the opinion of the child connected with serious family questions. Expand a circle of its obligations for the house, to a thicket ask it for the help.
4. If the teenager shows open aggression in relation to the father, or mothers and the behavior is included into what framework, him it is necessary to straighten out, force to recover and to stop behaving so. The main thing, do not apply offensive words, threats and ultimatums. You speak only about the wrong act which upset parents and it is necessary immediately to stop behaving so to apologize.
5. Do not show open hostility to the teenager's environment. Do not express bad opinion on them at the teenager. Friends for the child during teenage maturing are in the first place in the list of interests. Therefore invite them home, quietly, validly communicate with them. Let the child see in spite of the fact that you do not like these people, you show respect for opinion and the choice of the teenager.
6. If no given councils work, you cannot independently cope with the child, it is possible to address the school psychologist and other expert for consultation.