For some people the glass usually is half empty, for others - is half full. Also some are more often see in people high qualities, and others - negative. In the first case it is easier to find with surrounding a common language.
Instruction
1. On how the person perceives people around, its past experience and also character of the personality in general leaves a mark. So, the increased level of suspiciousness and uneasiness forces to be afraid more of others and to look for in them shortcomings, and in their behavior - a dirty trick. As a rule, the person able to see in people good is more friendly, he causes desire to communicate with it, so, has more chances to become successful. Such people have more friends and, as a rule, it is simpler to them to build the partner and romantic relations.
2. Most of people are not unambiguously "good" or "bad", and combine a set of qualities which usually carry to positive or negative. They can behave differently in different situations and with different people. It is possible to learn to reveal high qualities in people, training the filter of perception. If you give yourself a task to see in the room only objects of blue color or red, your look will allocate them. Also and with people - abstracting from the first negative thoughts and expectations, observe the person and think what pluses he possesses. Mentally praise him for it. Next time at a meeting you will already have a certain positive association.
3. Good psychologists know that often their positive qualities which they hide for any reason are behind conditional shortcomings of people. For example, the person with the broken heart can put on a mask of the cold and cynical lady-killer, being afraid that it will be hurt again, and at the same time hurts. The sociophobia and fear of communication can be behind external arrogance and dispassionateness. It is necessary to remember that all have weaknesses, and sometimes people prefer to hide the vulnerable parties of, creating image strong and even aggressive.
4. If you watch more people, they can surprise you. We can find out that the person with reputation of economical and greedy does charity work that the spiteful chief very much loves the children and cares for them, and the grumbling neighbor is sympathetic in a difficult situation. Of course, it does not mean that it is necessary to see the world in pink glasses and to become too trustful. Even good people can dishonourably behave or make something negative when their interests or for any other reason are infringed. But it will be useful to realize that the world is quite diverse and is not divided only into black and white.