Unripe nervous system of the child needs special attention from adults. The rich children's imagination fills real life with various dangers. Therefore the young person needs special protection and understanding of parents. How to help the baby to overcome various age fears?
Instruction
1. Take problems of the kid seriously. Do not try to joke or deride fears by what insignificant they would not be presented to you. It is senseless to persuade or to force to be brave. You should not cite as an example personal fearlessness. It is unlikely at you it will turn out to become a role model. On the contrary, awareness of own weakness can be for the child the cause of the next disappointment in life. And the kid will feel even more defenseless.
2. Children very often suffer from hypertrophied guardianship of seniors. The uncertainty of adults in independence of the child often forms new fears. Therefore try to encourage and direct aspiration of the child to independence. Raise its self-assessment and belief in a possibility of overcoming own weakness. Do not forget to praise the kid every time when he manages to overcome fear. If today your tot bravely remained in the dark room, then it is an occasion to encourage the little hero with favourite delicacy.
3. Try to limit a flow of unnecessary information. The weak children's mentality is very mobile and vulnerable. Viewing in a large number of telecasts (and even animated films) influences negatively not created personality. There are many other options for a change of children's leisure. Replace the TV and the computer with books. It is possible to gather all family in the living room after evening tea and to revive tradition of readings aloud.
4. More often be in theater and circus, at thematic exhibitions. Only responsibly approach the choice of the play or representation for the impressionable child. Previously collect reviews of the audience of statement which you are going to visit.
5. Expand a focus of interest of your child, distract from unpleasant memoirs. For example, sign up it in art studio. Representing the fears on paper, the kid will quicker learn to distinguish imagination from reality.