Quite often the child refuses to go to kindergarten during adaptation to preschool institution. Over time the situation will exchange to the best, but before parents need to get patience.
The reasons that the child does not want in a garden can be various - from inability to perceive separation from parents to not love for the tutor, the mode, food. Therefore in each case the parents should find out it independently.
It is necessary to accustom the child to a garden in advance, but not just before mom's exit from a maternity leave for work. Still up to this point it is necessary to tell the kid as it is cheerful and interesting in a garden, but so far it is still too small to go there and to play with other children. Then he will look forward to visit of a garden as holiday.
At first the kid is brought on day walk that he got acquainted with the tutor and children. Then time of stay increases and gradually it happens about the whole day. But if after that the child does not go to a garden, and looks for all ways to stay at home, parents should be ready to difficult fight. First, it is impossible to show weakness, to follow the tastes and to leave the child at home, as well as to feel sorry for him. Having felt that he can manipulate parents, the kid will be capricious even more. Liberalism in this situation only to aggravate situation. Secondly, try to reach compromise. If the reason consists in the menu, unpleasant for the child, gradually accustom him to kindergarten dishes, preparing their houses. When the kid does not like the tutor or not common language with collective, it is possible to try to agree with administration and some time to be present at group together with the child to make sure of the events personally. It will help the child to adapt quicker. But anyway the child has to know initially that the garden is for it the same duty, as well as work for parents. And then he will understand that fight is senseless here, and will be forced to look for good points in a garden.