For many women motherhood is happiness and meaning of life. And when one child grows up, immediately there is a wish to give birth to the second. But the decision on the birth of the next successor is made not only by future mom, but also dad. What to do if your husband against?
Instruction
1. Men understand not emotional explanations better that you would like to feel all delights of motherhood again. It is necessary to convince them the dry facts. Make the plan for the next several years in which paint on what money how many you can allocate for the first and second child how many remains on food, payment of the apartment, household appliances, entertainments will leave at you. Presence at you on the account of the sum of money which you specially postponed for the birth of the second kid will be a good argument for the husband. If you are able to convince the spouse that are capable to grow up two children, he will much quicker make to you concessions.
2. Many men just are afraid to bring the second child. Are afraid that will not be able to support family during your decree, are afraid that you will not pay them enough attention. If first labor took place hard, the man can be afraid to lose you. Only informal conversations will be able to help with it. Tell the husband that you have excellent familiar doctors who will help with childbirth that in case of the shortage of money you will be able to lease the apartment which got to you in inheritance from the grandmother promise to pay it attention maximum of which you will be capable. Convince the man that together you will be able to overcome any difficulties.
3. Remind the husband more often that you not just want the second child, you want the child from him. Such recognitions will cause pride in any man.
4. If you have familiar couples with two children, organize joint rest: go on a picnic, you go to amusement park. Let your man will make sure, as families with two kids are well off and enjoy life. However at the same time you have to be sure that your friends will not begin to complain how it is heavy to bring up two, otherwise your spouse will only become stronger in the suspicions about it.
5. You watch over the health. Health of future mom is a guarantee of health of the kid. When the spouse understands that you thoughtfully and consciously approach planning of future family member, he willingly will go to you to a meeting.