When in family there is a child - it is always joy. We with pleasure watch children – as they grow, develop, learn the world. There is no bigger happiness, than to see the child's smile. But not always children bring only positive emotions. They are disobedient, all strive to make in own way and do not perceive our councils. It is possible to cope with it.
It is required to you
- Patience, ability to reach compromise, imagination, self-control, humour.
Instruction
1. Patience and once again patience. Children, especially small, very sharply react to an our state. At children the emotional connection with parents is very strong. And if the child notices that you are nervous, your nervousness will be transferred also to him. He will begin to be capricious and insist on the. And you have completely different purposes.
2. Include imagination. The child is younger, the it is simpler to distract his attention. However, and more senior children can switch to what you offer them if it is made in playful way. The main thing is to make an impression at the child that he wanted to be engaged in it. And the playful way is for this purpose optimum.
3. Keep calm and a positive spirit. Not always the child starts at once complying with our requests. More often he finds the mass of excuses not to do any tiresome work, for example, to collect toys or to learn lessons. But the benevolent relation in this case is obligatory. Never raise the voice on the child – its reciprocal shout and a bigger disobedience will be result.