In the childhood we often heard from parents: "… presently everything was in a different way …". Years go and now ourselves so speak to the children. And it is the absolute truth - times change, but for full development of each child it is always necessary to remember education bases.
The childhood of modern children very much differs from the childhood of their parents. They walk less, spend time with ubiquitous "gadgets" more.
But, at least one hour a day nobody cancelled the dream mode, healthy food and walks. It is a basis of children's health. To sleep it is necessary to lay down at the same time, phones and tablets in a bed should not be, however, as well as behind a dining table too.
All of us understand that any achievement of digital technologies will not replace to children of communication with parents. But, it is so convenient - to entertain the child the equipment in the car, in shop, in hospital … isn't that so? However, is it necessary for the child, it is obvious that full development is possible only when children grow in society, but not in virtual measurement.
Try to start family traditions: joint dinners, board games on weekends, walks by all family. All this both develops children and brings together all family members.
It is important to understand that the parent is not the friend, this is, first of all, the mentor, the tutor. Therefore mom and dad have to establish reasonable borders of what is possible and it is impossible.
Let the child will have obligations for economy, so it will understand that it can be useful to others, to it will be what to be responsible for.
Talk to the child, you share the experiences and surely listen to everything that he wants to tell you. Embrace more often and smile to children. To be established so emotional connection between you and the daughter (son) to learn communication with other people.
That the child grew at independent, teach it as it is necessary to behave in different life situations: what to do if forgot a smenka in school, did not write down homework, it appeared without umbrella in the rain, etc.
The adult for the child - an example for imitation therefore it is not necessary that children passed as parents constantly "sit in phone" or at the computer. To forbid the child the tablet without mentally if mom and dad do not let go it.
Often "to tear off" the child from gadgets, parents try to take as much as possible his time with all circles, sections. It turns out that the child has no free time at all, and it is not correct. And, by the way, there is a nuance - the time has to be free both from school and from classes and from phones with tablets too. Free time is necessary for creativity, active games, walks and communication.
By the way, to uncontrolled and aimless pastime at the computer there is an excellent alternative – computer school. So the child will be dosed to obtain useful information and will understand that it not only entertainment, but also study, and in the future it can become its profession.
Anyway, everything well moderately also needs to be remembered that the nature in children put need not just of communication with adults, namely parental education, and it assumes certain expenses of forces and time.