The children's hysterics is the situation familiar to any parents. All faced it. But someone several times a year, and someone daily several times. The psychologist or just wise behavior of parents helps to cope with such behavior.
Children's hysterics
The hysterics is a way to splash out the collected negative emotions, it is the unique mechanism allowing to remove stress. Children do not know alternative methods and this for them the most available yet.
In process the child shouts, fights in convulsions, is curved back. The attack lasts long usually not, but many kids continue to cry and be capricious later. The strong hysterics can cause vomiting, short wind, fatigue. Such manifestation of emotions is most characteristic of children with weak mentality, aged from a year up to 5 years. Hysterics arrange in public. Presence of the audience is a main factor.
How to avoid a children's hysterics
To avoid a children's hysterics, it is necessary to follow simple rules. But here main not treatment, but prevention. Before an exit to the street, to do shopping, on the playground, make sure that the child is happy with everything: does not press footwear, not hot or not cold, comfortably. That the kid does not want in a toilet, to eat or sleep. The hysterics is a discontent, and it can be caused by anything.
Threshold of a children's hysterics is the whim. The child begins to ask something, parents refuse. That the situation did not develop, it is necessary to distract the kid. Translate attention to something amusing, bright.
Sometimes the hysterics is desire to draw attention. Or discontent with behavior of adults, for example, parents swear, and the kid begins to cry.
How to react to the child's hysterics
If the children's hysterics began, it is impossible to calm the child. Do not try, it you only prolong "concert". Do not pay attention, do not give in. Defiantly pretend that to you all the same. Once you only once concede, and the similar behavior will become the norm. You will regularly receive a portion of tears and shouts when do not agree to satisfy any request. Do not take the child on hands in such moments. Let him beat with fists, shouts. Let know that the similar behavior is indifferent.
You should not abuse the child for such actions also. Then, without audience, discuss with him that it is inadmissible that it is possible to achieve thus nothing. Let know what is not pleasant to you when he so behaves. Also explain to the kid that it is possible to realize not all desires. In this talk do not forget to say that you love him.
Forever to stop similar behavior, it is necessary that all family members supported your position. That grandmothers, aunts, the second parent, the tutor in kindergarten, the nurse behaved also and did not indulge emotions. Then the child will stop expressing discontent so.
Also do not listen to the councils passing by people who became casual witnesses of a hysterics of your child. Only you know how it is correct to behave with the kid.