Children's aggression – a subject important as such behavior at children, having begun with hardly noticeable manifestations, gradually becomes more and more problem and gets sharp forms. Psychologists, teachers, doctors note increase of number of children with such behavior.
Aggression at the child – a sure sign of emotional trouble, one of ways of psychological protection available to it, though inadequate. The behavior of the child can have provocative character – for it it is a way to dump the collected alarm, psychoemotional pressure.
Reasons of children's aggression
As the causes of aggressive behavior at the child call such: - childbirth with pathology which leaves consequences in the form of injuries of a brain;
- wrong relation in family to education of the child; - deterioration in living conditions in the social plan; - lack of attention from child care facilities to psychological conditions of pupils.
In spite of the fact that interest in this problem from the scientific point of view everything increases, mostly measures come down to theoretical reasonings on the reasons of its emergence and on how it is shown. And absolutely small amount of researches are based on real experience of correction of a situation or taking measures to its prevention. Besides for children of preschool age the timely correction of behavior can be extremely important as the aggression at them is not always standard of behavior, and is in a formation stage.
The games helping to reduce aggression
Among receptions which are used for decrease at the child of aggressive behavior can be applied various. It and demonstration of behavior without aggression, and discussion with the child of current situation, and even full ignoring of undesirable behavior. Outdoor games which should be selected depending on age of children are capable to bring the greatest effect. Games can be, for example, such. To children of 3-4 years the huge benefit is brought by games with pillows - it is a shell absolutely safe and available to all. The game "We Beat Out Dust" - to participants is distributed on one pillow, allegedly very dusty which it has to clean, having properly beaten. To children is more senior than five years it is possible to suggest to play "storm of fortress" if enough unbreakable objects for construction are had near at hand. It can be pillows and blankets, chairs, cubes, winter clothes. Prepare balls – "gun kernels". In turn participants throw "kernels" in fortress, it will not be possible to disorganize it on pieces yet. At each successful throw it is necessary to publish loud victorious calls. Outdoor games with loud shouts help to dump the collected energy which differently develops into aggression, confused the begotnyuvzrosly person who faced aggression of children has to try to reduce tension, to try to smooth a situation. For this purpose it is necessary to keep first of all the emotions under control – it will help to keep the normal relations with the child, not to give an impetus to further developments, and sometimes and shows that the adult remains a master of the situation after all.