Until recently it was such lovely and well-mannered. And today your growing-up child became rude, embittered, breaks in shout at the slightest pretext. How to treat such behavior?
Instruction
1. Try to find out the prime cause of these aggressive splashes. Perhaps, the teenager is tired of school loadings or there were difficulties in relationship with age-mates. Perhaps, you surrounded the child with excessive guardianship, and his aggressive behavior only a way to get rid of it?
2. Children absorb manners and behavior of people around as a sponge. Rather often they copy course of action of the adults who are near them. Perhaps, it is necessary to analyze methods of communication and behavior in the bosom of the family. Perhaps, the child is the witness of showdowns. Such moments need to try to be excluded.
3. Remember – reciprocal aggression of the place should not be. The reciprocal negative splash will only worsen the come contact. Try to react to any roughness it is quiet and balanced. Try to inform consciousness of the child that manifestation of emotions – it is normal, but urge to express them in a friendly form.
4. Develop ability to show emotions words in valid tone at the child. Try to reconstruct through joint efforts the aggressive phrases said by the child, selecting and using acceptable and polite vocabulary. Only be not too importunate. If your son or the daughter do not want to communicate at present, postpone a conversation to other time.
5. Show a maximum of patience and a step not to cause still big embitternment. The child is not able to express the emotions in words, from here and aggression therefore sort out the reason together. To you it is not necessary to ignore roughness and rudeness in behavior of the child too, otherwise it will develop into a habit. What manner of behavior the child will take in adulthood, depends only on you.