Taking into account influence of cinema, television, advertizing, music and peers, sometimes it seems to parents that they have no chances somehow to influence the choice of the child concerning the use of drugs. However it far not so. Important values which you instill in children since small years and during growing will become a deterrent in a question of the use of drugs in the future.
Instruction
1. If the child already became addicted to drugs, it is very heavy to save him and it is not always possible. To leave this vicious circle, superstrong desire and will is necessary. Even if the addict will be able to get rid of the harmful dependence for some time, he can return to it subsequently, and then will be made a fresh start.
2. When the person gets used to drugs, it is difficult for it to find it replacement in ordinary life. Without them surrounding for it as though loses bright paints. But the main thing, to it nothing to fill emptiness in soul. That is why often addicts are helped by neither expensive clinics, nor a talk, nor beliefs. For this reason only prevention is capable to save the child from drugs.
3. It is important to remember that children are raised not words, but the personal example. Therefore under no circumstances not to an upotreblyata drugs, especially at the child. Besides, you should not think that, avoiding a talk with children about drug addiction, you will be able to save them from this trouble. It is better not to hide from a possible problem, and to prevent it. Therefore, checking television programs where show a plot on this subject, do not miss the moment and discuss harm of drugs with the child. Let he will visually see in transfer what life of human who stepped into this slippery slope can turn into.
4. However discussing with the child of a problem of drug addiction, it is not necessary to go into other extremes: to impose on him the opinion, to read lecture, to condemn and to pathetically convict people with this dependence. Otherwise you will achieve opposite effect - the child can think that forbidden fruit is sweetest.
5. Wishing to save the kid or the teenager from drug addiction, parents have to take care of that it had some hobbies, a hobby. Children after school often kill time with watching TV, computer games, without being interested in anything in another. Such way of life can lead to the intake of alcohol or drugs subsequently. Therefore it is important that parents encouraged creative undertakings of children, helped them to develop the abilities. It is good if there is an opportunity to send the child to some circle or to sports section which is pleasant to it.
6. Being engaged in career or solving personal problems, parents often find not enough time for the child. In that case he is for days on end provided to himself and can quite contact the bad company on the street. Such situation - not a rarity even for children from successful families. As a result the child or the teenager can become addicted not only to smoking, but also to alcohol and drugs.
7. To save the child from drugs, you need to become him a friend - the loved one with whom he will be able to share the problems, experiences, pleasures and chagrin. Try to be the democratic parent, but not the authoritative dictator who controls, orders and forbids because in this case the grown-up child can begin to arrive to you in defiance, from spirit of a contradiction.
8. The authority of parents how many them support and love is capable to save the child from drug addiction not so much. Only the happy child surrounded with care, tenderness, unconditional acceptance of parents will begin to hurry home, but not to vanish long hours in the yard. Only such child will think what pain he will bring to close people, having become on the way of self-destruction.
9. Children in whom their family believes, will believe in themselves, grow at purposeful, cheerful, successful people who will not be needs the artificial catalyst of euphoria. Show condescension, attentiveness, participation and care. Sincerely support, encourage, inspire, try to understand the child. Be happy and raise happy your children.