For newborn children the dummy is considered the main soothing subject because the sosatelny reflex is the only process which the child is capable to carry out till the birth. With growing there comes the moment when the child needs to be disaccustomed to a pacifier. Mothers for this purpose have reasons, but whatever they were, the woman has to be ready that this process demands many nerves and time.
Rules of excommunication of the child from a pacifier
At excommunication from a dummy you should not give to the baby a pacifier as soon as crying is heard. It is important to learn to calm the child in any other way, for example, to distract its attention, to carry on hands or just to play with it. Most likely, the kid at once will not be able to calm down, but it is not necessary to be given and give him a dummy instantly. It is also important to try that the baby did not suck a dummy without need, special on that. The pacifier in the course of breaking is given to the child only in an emergency situation – if the child is scared or badly feels.
During excommunication of the child from a dummy, positive emotions are especially useful. For this purpose it is desirable that the kid was in the company of peers that they could together play and try to find a common language. Thus, requirement of sucking can disappear.
That the child was quickly disaccustomed to a dummy, it is important to move forward only. In all actions of parents the sequence, softness have to be visible and it is a little persistence. Sometimes mom, without maintaining night hysterics and shouts of the child, gives him a dummy, but it is wrong. It is not recommended to do the slightest ease not only to the kid, but also itself.
In the course of excommunication from a pacifier it is important not to shame and not to offend the kid. It can injure its mentality.
Original methods of disposal of a pacifier
Also there is a cunning option of excommunication from a pacifier. While the kid does not see, it is possible to cut a dummy. Thus, at the child it will not turn out to use it any more, and mom at the same time has to tell that the pacifier is spoiled and is not suitable for use. Because the kid does not understand yet that it is possible to get a new pacifier, he will not begin to elicit it, and this technique will work. It is also possible to organize for the child a small celebration in honor of refusal of a dummy. For this purpose what baby should get – nibud a gift which can be handed in exchange for a pacifier. It is necessary to choose date for celebration in advance. At the same time it is important not to forget that small children have absolutely other temporary perception and even "tomorrow" they will long wait. Still it is possible to create some interesting fairy tale, for example, about a fluffy wolf for which the dummy is necessary for his little wolf cub. The child will surely want to present the pacifier to the fantastic hero, and thus it is possible to disaccustom him to a dummy.