Children's collective it not only games and joint classes. Konfliktov there, unfortunately, too is not to avoid. And both between children, and between adults. The task of parents is to bypass all acute angles, without having injured at the same time mentality of the child.
Instruction
1. The most difficult conflict is misunderstanding between parents and the tutor. For this reason it is necessary to choose not a garden, and the tutor. With it your kid will carry out till some hours daily and very important that between them the contact was come.
2. Be polite and friendly with the staff of kindergarten. Do not consider them by service staff which have to execute whims of your child. You teach the child to respect tutors and the nurse. Never discuss their actions in a negative way at the child. In any disputable situation listen to all parties. Attract witnesses of the taken place conflict. Address the regular psychologist.
3. There are things which the tutor has no right to do. He cannot shout at the child (to shout, but not just to raise the voice). To beat! It in general under a ban. It is impossible to punish the child, locking its one, depriving of food or a dream. To feed violently (if you did not discuss it). If such cases, even single, were, immediately go to the head of the kindergarten and write the application. The similar conflicts it is not necessary to suppress at all. If such "educational" measures from personnel proceed, you have the right to write the application in Department of Education of your city. And the special commission will understand the created situation.
4. But there is even more difficult situation – the conflict with other parents. Most often it arises because of quarrels and fights between children. Remember the main rule – any dismantling with foreign child. You have the right to communicate on this matter only with the tutor and his parents. And other party too not in the right to make remarks to your child. At first sort out the event with the tutor. Listen to the version of the child (if the age allows). And only after that correctly communicate to parents of other participant of the conflict.
5. In a situation when one child terrorizes all group, it is better to unite with other parents and to take out this question at a general meeting. If the situation happens in private kindergarten, the similar conflicts perfectly are solved with the management. It is simpler and more favorable to remove one child from group, than to lose 10-15 children.
6. But also in usual gardens do not want to wash the dirty linen in public. And if the child is really aggressive-minded, beats, bites other children, parents can ask to take away the child from a garden, having threatened with guardianship authorities. Yes, today's realities are that that the staff of child care facilities has to report in supervisory authorities about all considerable violations concerning children.