Hysterics at children – the phenomenon very and very unpleasant. Its external manifestations spoil mood to people around, and for the howler monkey of a tear and cries can cause disorder of nervous system. That is why at the child it is important to hysteric to stop in time. And it is possible to make it, having resorted to one of the specified ways...
It is required to you
- patience and self-control
Instruction
1. When at your kid there comes the hysterics, the most important do not assimilate to it and do not fall into the same state. Of course, you will be nervous, especially if the child suits a hysterics in crowded places: in shops, on the street, etc. Do not repeat mistakes of many mothers: do not persuade and do not feel sorry for a howler monkey and the shouter. Try to bring him round at once.
2. If the hysterics occurred in the crowded place not to listen to "useful" comments of people around, try or to take the kid aside where nobody will see you, or in general to bring him out of the room.
3. As soon as you remained with the child confidentially, try to switch his attention by "the angry uncle" who swears on the kid, a cat who goes in the distance, etc. Does not help? Then use the following method: remember it (or it) hobby and talk about it. If also it does not help, then simply at urgent speed conduct the child home to wash, look at cartoons, to play with a favourite toy.
4. If the hysterics occurred at your place, then one of the most effective, the truth enough cruel methods, will be to close the child in the room and to allow it "to be cried out". Also other, much softer decision helps: press the child to yourself and talk to it quietly on abstract subjects. The kid will calm down, and, perhaps, it will allow to reduce number of hysterics further.
5. Do not try to stop shouts and crying by cardinal means: you should not beat, shout and push the child at all. You will only frighten him of it, and the kid can become reserved for long time. Believe if the child cries, to him and it is so heavy and to aggravate this state at least uneducationally.
6. Kind of you worried, try to speak with the child slowly and quietly. Explain to him that such his behavior in a root is wrong and if the hysterics the kid wants something to achieve, then it will come to the purpose much quicker if dries up tears and will ask you "properly".