Loudly children can cry and be capricious practically for any reasons. Such behavior can be connected with offense, rage, failures or bruises. However many children use tears and shouts for manipulation of parents. It is necessary to fight against hysterics of the child by certain methods.
Instruction
1. Experts claim that children up to 4 years are most inclined to hysterics. At this age the child understands that it is possible to achieve the desirable by means of tears and shouts. For example, if parents do not buy a beautiful toy in shop. Crying will become the best way to receive a treasured gift. Parents differently react to such behavior. Some begin to abuse, and others - fulfill the requirements to stop a baby's cry.
2. Children's hysterics can be divided into several categories figuratively. It is necessary to fight against each kind of whims by certain methods. For example, a hysterics which it is possible to call ""theatrical performance"". The most widespread example is the situation when one of parents forbids something therefore the child tries to elicit a hysterics the desirable at the second parent. In this case mom and dad have to agree not to concede to the kid. Otherwise the child will quickly get used to achieve the objectives thus.
3. The second type of a hysterics - representation in the public place. If the child begins to be capricious on the street, in shop or other public places, then you should not involve at all ""in business"" strangers. Most often parents begin to tell phrases about ""aunts which will take away the child" "or" "militiamen who punish crybabies"". Such phrase in many cases you will cause still a big hysterics. The reason - the kid needs the audience and if the aunt and the militiaman comes, then the audience will be even more. In this case it is necessary to show composure. Silently take the child by hand and take away home where seriously talk about his behavior.
4. If the child has absolutely unpredictable hysterics, as they say, ""out of the blue"", then in such situation it is necessary to take more serious measures. Such behavior is most often connected with fears or physical diseases. If the child is sad, and in attempt begins to talk to him aggressively to react to parents, then some pain or a quarrel with someone from acquaintances can be the cause. Try to find the moment and to ask whether the stomach or the head hurts the child, whether he hurt on walk, ask, how was your day in kindergarten. It is quite probable that thanks to quiet intonation, the child will feel your care and will tell everything.