When the child reaches teenage age, parents often to face such problem as roughness from the child. What should I do?
Instruction
1. The teenage period, the child realizes themselves as adult and it expresses it differently, including, by means of the increased tones, to impudence and roughness in relation to parents. The teenage period is not infinite and will surely end therefore it is worth having patience and to wait until the storm ceases. The main thing, pay attention to the behavior and analyze as you address the child, perhaps, it is just reaction to command tone of parents.
2. Forget that you can order the teenager, and he will implicitly carry out all your orders. Now the child will demand other attitude towards himself, it is necessary to communicate with it as equals, as with the adult. Therefore instead of direct requirements, learn to agree with the teenager better.
3. If the child begins to raise on you a voice, you should not answer the same, outvoicing each other you, will achieve nothing. If the child began to show aggression just leave the room, without having listened to the end, or quietly approach, embrace the child, joke as he funny looks when cries out. Such unpredictable reaction of you will force it to calm down, recover.
4. Your communication with the child has to be as equals. Teenagers are irritated by excessive manifestation of tenderness and a baby talk. They try to show in various ways the independence and independence. Therefore talk to the child as the adult and he will not begin to pass to impudent rough tone to prove the importance and importance.
5. Making important decisions, concerning all family, ask opinion of the teenager, consult, encourage it to take part in family councils. In that case the impudent behavior and rough tone will be inappropriate, the child understands that in this situation it will look childly therefore will try to give itself gravity and quietly to talk.
6. Do not criticize and do not humiliate the child, especially at strangers. If there is a conflict situation, stop, it is better to discuss it alone with the teenager. If the skirmish began in front of the audience, get it together and leave.
7. Do not show impassioned reaction in response to roughness of the teenager. Its purpose to cause your reaction. If your behavior remains quiet, this way, for drawing attention will disappear.