Since birth, each child learns the world. Since the kid begins to creep and to rise independently on legs, some dangers begin to trap him. At this moment the parents should draw the attention of the child to what "is possible", so it is safe and that it "is impossible". In order that the child understood a word it "is impossible" and followed it, parents should know several simple rules of communication with the kid.
It is required to you
- - caps for sockets
- - blockers for doors and boxes
- - rubber bath mat
- - puzzles or other games
- - favourite delicacy of the kid
Instruction
1. The first bans, as a rule, are connected with safety of the child. But it should not "is impossible" to be too much, otherwise the word loses the meaning. Let there will be, for example, 5 main bans. In this regard eliminate a possible maximum of dangers to the kid at least of the house – insert into cap sockets, on doors and boxes with dangerous things attach blockers, on a bottom of the bathroom put a rubber nonskid cloth, etc.
2. Explain to the child why it is impossible to do or take any given thing. That the kid acquired point of the ban, he has to understand, than the forbidden action is fraught.
3. Be persistent and unshakable. If you understood for yourself several things which you do not want the child to do, always hold the ground and never let's the kid make forbidden. Otherwise the sense from the ban will not be, and you will return on a starting point.
4. Forbidding, offer the child something in exchange. For example, it is impossible to play with documents, and it is possible to play with puzzles. It is possible to distract the child from forbidden and otherwise - to suggest to play some entertaining game, to look through the picture-book, or, at last, to suggest to drink to tea with favourite delicacy. The main thing is to switch attention of the kid to other subject or action.
5. Never beat your child even if he disobeyed or mistaken. Be patient! He only learns the world and studies everything, and to learn something at once – always difficult.