Often mothers of absent-minded kids envy parents of those children who since small years show the concentration. Of course, it is much simpler to such children to study at school, they are able to live on rather accurate mode, at the same time even manage to help parents with household chores. How to teach concentration of the child who constantly "drags out"?
Instruction
1. First of all, try to explain to the kid, to play and be engaged how conveniently and cheerfully in fascinating affairs if the "obligatory" program is already executed – dishes are washed, lessons are learned.
2. The best example – parents. The child perfectly understands where there is a place of concentration and where mom herself shirks accurate performance of affairs, having spent time for phone conversations or watching TV. If at the child before eyes it is constant an example of parents at whom all work goes according to the plan, and after that they are able also to enjoy wholly rest, then he will want to follow their example.
3. Try to disaccustom the child to pay attention to the external factors preventing to gather. For example, ask it not to speak by phone with friends until he made lessons. Requests do not work? You pass to the bans: it is necessary to study concentration since small years, otherwise in adulthood it will be very difficult.
4. Try to teach the child to do one serious work qualitatively, but not a little – somehow. Of course, geniuses occur among children and, capable of resourcefulness miracles. However, in most cases, at the child simply it will turn out to make several unfinished cases.
5. Train attention of the kid since childhood special exercises: if he grows inattentive, then not to avoid problems with loss of keys, a zabyvaniye of things, etc. Exercises on attention can be very simple – they can quite be found in special literature.
6. Perhaps, the problem cannot be solved by own forces: then try to consult with the children's psychologist, having told him it is detailed about character, habits and features of the kid which you find it necessary to correct. The doctor will prompt how to exercise in a solution judgment.
7. It is quite possible that with your unostentatious help and hints the child simply "will outgrow" over time this problem. As a rule, already by the beginning of high school children become much more built, beginning to realize responsibility for own acts and a consequence of the not concentration. However the child needs constantly to be put on the right track, unostentatiously prompting it, its misses where exactly.