From the first school days before parents of pupils there is a problem: how to teach the child to perform independently homework. And the was more sponsored your kid still, the it is more difficult to accustom him to prepare for school most. As to make it?
Instruction
1. So, if you want your child successfully to study in middle and high school when homeworks become already rather difficult, to begin to teach him to independence follows from the very first school day. Explain to the child that lessons are his direct duty, and he has to be engaged in them strictly certain time each weekday. Establish for classes such hours in which you first will be able to control process of doing homework. To control – does not mean to sit and solve problems together with the child, and to watch from outside that he was not distracted by foreign objects – the TV, the computer, toys and books.
2. In the course of performance of lessons the child can have difficulties: sooner or later he will face a task which will not be able to solve. In that case he should be helped. Find a similar task or change conditions initial so that it slightly differed in figures. Then find a way of the solution of this task in the textbook and together with the child find the correct answer. If in the course of the joint decision of your pupil dawns" - do not disturb it, let will reach the end of a task. Useful will be to look for several alternative solutions of a task also together. Try to turn this process into a competition: who will invent the best decision – will win a prize. When the child acquires a way of the decision, he without problems will independently cope with an initial task.
3. However happens so that the child just does not want to study. Then the correct motivation will come to the rescue. You do not press on the child. Just demonstrate to him that will occur in case he does not study – heavy, badly paid work and the low status in society will frighten practically any little idler. For contrast tell the child about what waits for the successful pupil: fascinating student's years, prestigious work and good reward of work.
4. Other case – when the child wants to study, but does not master the program. In that case approach has to be strictly individual and careful. Parents of such pupil should consult with the teacher and the school psychologist and to strictly implement their recommendations. The main thing is not to give to the school student to lose self-confidence and the forces. At school perhaps successful training not only at the expense of a lucid mind, but also due to assiduity. And it is possible to prove in creativity, sport and other areas of school life.
5. And last council. Remember yourself at school. If you were not enough stars from the sky, then you should not wait for it from the child. And vice versa – you do not press on it the excellent marks at school. So you will only embitter it or will morally humiliate. You remember, your child the most unique, do not compare him to anybody you love it what it is.