The vast majority of parents complain of morning gatherings of the child to school. The school student there is no wish to wake up early, rises hardly, hardly chews morning porridge, is capricious, does not want to go anywhere. Parents are nervous, shout, hurry and spoil nerves and themselves, and the child.
When, at last, the child is brought together, to school the way is practically on the run. And then the whole day poor parents I feel the guilt, and think how to help the child correctly to organize the morning and to avoid hassle.
How to teach the child to be going to school?
For the child there has to be an example
Of course, the child follows an example of adults. Whether the parent is able to plan the day? Whether so easily mom or dad gathers for work in the mornings? Of course, in life there is a miscellaneous, and not always everything manages to be done according to the plan, but for the sake of the child it is necessary to teach to live is organized also without haste.
The parent should get up before the child
The parent should get up a bit earlier, to find time for himself, to lighten the mood behind morning kofey or tea. And further it is necessary to help the kid to organize the morning. As mom or dad had free time for themselves, they can find other remained time for the child. The school student of independence should help to reach.
Planning of day
About morning it is necessary to take care since evening. If the child late goes to bed then and to get up in the morning to him very hard. In a day the kid strongly is tired both intellectually, and physically therefore good rest is simply necessary for it. If the child lays down a bit earlier, then and it will be simpler to get up to him and everything will be much easier to turn out.
Care of clothes
It is necessary to think of the child's clothes in advance. It will be better if it is not only comfortable, but also easy in clothing. In spite of the fact that at such age the child is already almost an adult, all the same it should facilitate his new life at least in it. Better if the clothes are on convenient velcros or elastics. In that case, the child will be able independently to put on also without excess efforts. Then nerves both at the parent and at the school student will remain.
Conversation about the future day
As the child is not rather independent, he cannot remember all sequence of actions since morning. It will be much better if something reminds him of necessary actions. For example, it is possible to make arrows on which he will go and to perform tasks. Or it is possible to hang out pictures which will serve as a reminder on any given process. All steps have to be painted, from toothbrushing before clothing of footwear. And results can be attached on the fridge in the form of the report. For the child it will be a peculiar game, and he with pleasure will begin to be going to school.
Positive spirit
Let the parent will wake the child not usual words, but a kiss or an amusing song. It is possible to turn on the children's music, but you should not begin morning with animated films. Otherwise, the child will long watch a cartoon and will not want to go to school.
Collecting since evening
It will be best of all if the vast majority of cases is made since evening. For example, it is necessary to fold correctly in the evening clothes that since morning it was easy to be dressed. The portfolio also by the morning has to be already built. It will save from excess vanity. The parent has to control gatherings of the child in the evening that he forgot nothing. However, it is important that and in it the kid had a certain independence. He can remind, but you should not do everything for him.
Role-playing game
Often happens so that the kid does not want to recover in school for the simplest reasons. Perhaps, he did not have relations with pupils or with the teacher. Happens so that the school student in educational institution can be offended. And then the kid resists a visit of school very much. In it couples to mom or dad it is necessary to talk to the child, it is soft and without being imposed. Whether it is necessary to know everything at him well it develops at school whether it has friends as teachers treat it. If it becomes clear that there are certain problems, then it is necessary to take the appropriate measures. When all problems are solved or settled, process of collecting will go to school quicker.
Praise
It is necessary to praise the child. For example, if the kid quickly gathered and was not late in school, mom or dad need to note it. Also it is necessary to emphasize why so it happened that for this morning was made best of all. Parents I can offer encouragement, it can be purely symbolical. It is possible to accumulate points for successful collecting and at the end of the week, in case of positive result, to go all family to circus or to a zoo.