To teach the child it is possible to be protected in the first year of his life. Undoubtedly, it is difficult to it to explain something at such early age therefore he has to study everything on "visual aids". You have to become for it a living example. Then the child will copy your behavior model in any given situations.
Instruction
1. If the kid bit you when feeding, let it know what so cannot be done, tell that to you sick and stop feeding for a while. After several such repetitions the child will understand everything and more so will not do. Be persistent, and subconsciously the kid will already learn diplomatic answers.
2. If the kid hit you or pulled for hair, then you should not answer with the same gestures. So you teach the child to be more aggressive only. Firmly tell him that this way it is ugly to act, but do not punish at all. Develop a phrase which will become your password. For example: "I do not allow to do so". Gradually the kid himself will learn to say this phrase in conflict situations. And the more surely he will speak, the it will bring more effect.
3. At the conflicts in a sandbox do not take everything too very much to heart. Quarrels will not manage to be avoided, it is kind of strong you tried. Help your kid. Only do not begin to shout at other child. Show a way of peaceful solution of a question, otherwise you risk to grow up the rowdy.
4. If try to take away toys from your kid, the phrase which the child learned earlier will help (see item 2). You teach it to be firm in the words, not to cry, but also not to start at once a fight. If your kid several times answers with firm refusal or will suggest to play together, then can be sure that he in the future of such situations will be much less.
5. If other child behaves aggressively in relation to yours, that is itself tries to fight, then aged up to 2 years it is desirable to protect the kid from such fighters. Explain to him that the aggressor is not right, but also that it is impossible to give itself in offense. Especially it concerns those children who are physically obviously weaker than the rivals. If it does not help, talk to parents of other child. Softly hint them at current situation.
6. Over time try to pass to non-interference tactics while the situation it allows. Give to the child the chance most to deal with the offender.
7. But consider that not all conflicts can be resolved by words. Sometimes your kid after all should defend the correctness by force. Teach him to feel a side when it is possible to use brute force and when it is possible to resolve everything the world.
8. Explain to him that the first cannot attack. But if attacked him, teach to hit back. Let know to the child that if another "lifts up" him, then it is the best of all to ignore such attacks and if someone tries to hit him, then and it is necessary to fight back with the same way. Ask dad to give to the child several lessons of elementary self-defense.
9. Send the child to section of oriental martial arts. Their philosophy learns not to attack, and to be protected. To use force only in urgent cases, when there is no other exit. Your kid will learn not only to stand for himself, but also will acquire such concepts as courage, nobility, advantage.