Very often we abuse children for a mess, but many of us do not even think how to accustom the child to purity in the house. The most important is to set the kid the correct example. Still in this case several simple rules will be useful.
Very often children show an initiative and try to help mom to houseclean: sweep the floors, display kitchen appliances on different lockers. Usually from such "order" only it becomes worse. But it is impossible to shout at children and to say that it is necessary to do nothing. From it at the kid the desire to help will be gone. On the contrary, it is necessary to praise the child, to tell what he is a good fellow what he the assistant will be for mom.
The child needs to show and tell how it is correct to bring order. The order has to be not only in the nursery, but also in all house. The child has to see that around him it is clean and accurate, all things are spread out in the places. Together with the child it is possible to sort all toys on cases and shelves. For example, to put all machines in one box, let it will be their garage; to put all figures of animals on a separate shelf which will become a zoo.
It is not necessary to do so that there was a surplus of toys, at the child the attention will dissipate, it is difficult to it to concentrate on one game and to keep order. The good method is to hide a part of toys, and then to get them. After a while, for example, in a month, it is worth getting toys from the secluded place and to hide the next party. If the small child, then he quickly forgets about the toys, and again appeared machines or dolls for him seem new.
Surely it is worth helping the child with cleaning, it is not necessary to leave his one and to force to clean up the room. It is desirable to render the feasible help, but not to do everything for him. Things on shelves and boxes have to be available to the kid that he learned to take them, and then to put back independently.
Familiarizing with an order – rather long process, up to several months, and in certain cases even years. But if the objective is correctly achieved, the child will learn not only to clean up, but also to keep order without assistance. It is impossible to give up the begun business halfway. Be ready that at first in the apartment there will be a full mess, but over time all it is formed and the child will learn to get on easily with the toys, will accurately know where that they lie and where it needs to be removed.