Small children look defenseless in communication with adults, but only not with the age-mates. Here the kid talks as equals and can show the leadership skills, for example, to select a toy. What it is necessary to do in this case to the child who on a character warehouse silent and trouble-free, ready to submit to whims of the peer, to solve to parents. Parents should teach the child of to protect.
Instruction
1. Children get the first experience of communication with age-mates already in kindergarten. Therefore at this particular time it is important that the child learned to protect himself, otherwise he will be exposed to sneers the entire period of preschool education. Explain to the child that he has the right to choose to whom to give toys with whom to communicate to whom to help, etc. If on force take away its things from him, then here he has to show clearly to the offender that such situation does not suit it. For this purpose, teach child to give verbal repulse, such as: "In our family it is not accepted to select each other things. If you want to play with my toy, then ask it for me, I surely will give it to you for a while".
2. In case words do not help to resolve an unpleasant situation, and the offender of your child begins to fight, then the psychological method of "isolation" will help here. Let your child will invite to play together with him several children, and they among themselves will agree not to take in the offender's game. For the fighter it will appear severe test to become the derelict among the companions. If the unpleasant atmosphere reigns in kindergarten, and entered tradition of a fight and caustic words to your child, then it is better to transfer it to other child care facility.
3. Do not let know to the child at all that he is a driveller. The child in the family, Wednesday, habitual for it, looks for support and a wise advice how to arrive in any given situation. Encourage the kid, inspire in him that he is the world's best kid, and at it everything surely will turn out. Show it movies where the main hero of his age gets into a similar situation and tries to come out by trial and error from it the winner.
4. If the child very timid, take away him on a training or on special games for communication communication of children which are held by psychologists. There to it experts will help to understand themselves and will teach to answer offenders correctly.
5. Still the child will be able to receive big self-confidence in sports sections (judo, sambo, taekvando). In the same place he will get acquainted with the adherents, he will create a circle of friends, and he will not react to offenses of enemies so "sharply" any more. And physically he will be able to fight back them and morally as he will know that not one, and his true friends wait at a training.