Your kid refuses to go on the playground, being afraid that his toys will be taken by other children? Do not worry that he grows at greedy. Such period arises in life of each child. Just help it to become kind and teach to share.
Instruction
1. In the presence of the kid you divide fruit and sweets into all family members - to everyone on a piece even if small. If in your family it is not accepted to divide everything equally, and goodies are received only by the child, he will not learn to be kind.
2. You ask the baby to treat relatives more often. If the kid is capricious and does not wish to eat up porridge, never speak to him that you will give food to other boy (the uncle, the aunt, a doggie, etc.).
3. Play with the kid subject games which develop sense of justice. For example, treat a bear, hare and a doll with apple, having divided it equally, take for a drive them in turn in a carriage or on the car.
4. Exchange objects with the child, previously having discussed that one him, and other yours. You thank and praise the child during the game to cause in him positive emotions.
5. Ask his favourite toy for the kid, press it to yourself and at once return, without having forgotten to thank. The child will know that his thing surely will return to him.
6. Do not estimate behavior of the child at the moments of manifestation of greed, calling him the greedy person, and you speak about the emotions more. Tell it that it is unpleasant to you when he acts this way that you will be glad if he allows children to play it toys.
7. Teach the child to communicate. Explain to him that if he wants to play with a toy of other kid, then has to offer it the on exchange. If the kid doubts, calm him, having assured that by all means will return it his thing. If exchange took place, praise both.
8. Cultivate love and ability to give gifts at the child. Do together with him pleasant surprises to the family and friends. Let it will be hand-made articles which he made with your help, the studied poem or a song, or the gift bought by you in shop. The kid will look forward these moments and joy. Content will allow it to feel generous and generous, and gradually he will understand that, giving, it is possible to receive much more in exchange.