Personal environment of the teenager factor, very important for it. If there are problems of communication with peers, it is necessary to help the child to improve the relations.
Instruction
1. For a start it is necessary to find out the reason why the child has no friends why there are conflict situations, or perhaps children just do not perceive your teenager and wrote down him in derelicts. Unostentatiously, frankly talk to the child, having found out the reason, act on a situation. Help to develop with the necessary direction. Define what qualities are not enough for your teenager, confidence, independence and so on. Help the child to work over strengthening of necessary qualities.
2. Help the child, will approach the interests of the company in which the teenager wants to be. If children practise the photo, music, sport, other hobbies, write down the child on the corresponding classes. Do not interfere if the teenager seeks to look as friends and for this purpose it is necessary to do intricate hair and to buy new jeans.
3. If the teenager, owing to the impulsiveness, quarreled with the friend and decided to break off the relations, stop him. Ask to tell you the cause of conflict, together analyze a situation, perhaps the conflict not such serious to push away from themselves friends. You teach the child to appreciate people, to forgive, give the second chance.
4. If the teenager is too timid, it is heavy to it to meet with people, then it is necessary to work over his self-confidence. Help the child to look more attractively, a new hairstyle, stylish things, the teenager has to look it is well-groomed and accurately and to be pleasant first of all to itself. Send him to fitness, to a grade the hall, self-confidence will be added by the good tightened figure. Also special trainings or courses which develop sociability will help and fight shyness.
5. All people too different and to seek to please all, to be interesting to everyone it is impossible. Encourage the teenager to be oneself and love itself it what he is. People do not love falseness and pretense. When the child perceives himself, he will surely attract friends who have interests, similar to it.
6. To adjust ability to communicate at the child, parents need to find every day for it time and to talk about everything. Ask questions, encourage the child more to speak, you teach it to support a conversation, to find new subjects for a conversation.