Feeding of the child a breast – guarantee of his health. Also such meal engenders close relationship between the kid and mother. But once there comes the moment when it is necessary to begin to separate the child from a breast. It is very difficult endured. But it is necessary to disaccustom. And the first that is necessary for mom - it is to stock up with patience and also to pick up the most convenient way which will help to teach the child to fill up without breast.
Instruction
1. Begin to disaccustom him during a daytime sleep. Yes, at first the child will protest and to seriously demand mother's proximity. A task of mom not to allow and smooth a stress. It does not mean that having been tired to listen to crying, she will give up and will lay the child on a breast. It is rather on the contrary - mom has to remain firm, but not abandon the child.
2. Put the child in a bed and begin to tell him the fairy tale or to sing a quiet song. It is possible to enclose a rubber toy in the handle. The kid, listening to a mother's voice, will calm down and over time will fall asleep. Many mothers, listening councilsto psychologists, turn on pleasant gentle music. But you should not do it because for the child important presence of mom and feeling that it is near.
3. If the voice did not possible to calm, massage to the child of a leg, stroke a back or a tummy, take it for the handle.
4. After the child learned to sleep in the afternoon independently, it is possible to continue study. To teach to fill up the child without breast at night, go according to other scheme. You should not refuse applying in general. The child has to get used gradually.
5. Do not mix sucking with a different way of calm. The kid has to understand that the evening fairy tale is a sign which prompts that it is time to sleep.
6. And finally, advice to those who only begin to feed the child. Do not accustom the kid to sleep on one bed with parents. He from the cradle has to know that it has the separate bed. Yes, fatigue and laziness are advised back. It is very convenient to feed the child right after he woke up, and mom still half-asleep fills up. But over time you will understand that following this advice, in the future you will secure yourself and the child against the stress connected with excommunication from a mother's breast.