Ability to forgive – one of the most important qualities of the human person. But after all to forgive heartily even to the adult happens very hard. Often we bear offenses which corrode our soul from within in the heart, forever remaining painful points. Therefore it is very important to impart to the child ability to forgive that safely and freely to go further on life.
In modern reality to teach children to forgive the offenders not really popularly — exactly the opposite, it is accepted to teach them "to give delivery". But the aspiration to respond with violence to violence leads to increase of the conflict.
The ability to forgive others forms the basis of all interpersonal relations in society. That the child learned not to hold offense on people around, it is necessary to set him a personal example. In the early childhood, looking at reaction of the parents, children learn to react to the world around.
If you on a personal example show that it is possible to resolve any conflict situation — it will allow your children to understand as forgiveness in lives and communication with other people is necessary. Your children (there are they small or teenagers) always have to ask forgiveness if they offend someone. The words "Forgive Me" should not become for them an empty phrase, or way to avoid punishment, they have to be experienced by the child.
It is considered that the children growing in an incomplete or large family are most often subject to offenses. But this wrong delusion which is similar to a stamp. In reality the family composition is not so important, and plays rather not a paramount role in this problem. Impressionable children and children with weak nervous system and also kids who have deficiency of attention from parents are more sensitive.
Helping the children to realize need and value of forgiveness, you should impart, first of all, to them respect for surrounding people, to show that all of them different, but to these also are valuable. Children have to master fully art of empathy, responsibility and justice. Training the children in forgiveness, you help them to adapt better further in society and just to become good people.