Children study many things independently, but there are such things to which parents have to teach the child. For example, parents impart to the child of the rule of conduct in society, teach it to wash hands and to brush teeth, to tie laces. But there are also such moments in education which can be carried to the most important.
Parents have to teach the child to love and respect themselves. Of course, it is not necessary to raise from him the egoist, but it is necessary to let the child know that it has to validly and with love to treat itself. For this purpose it needs to set own example. If parents respect and love themselves, children follow this example.
The trust of the child can be caused training of expression of own thoughts by the speech. It is unlikely the child can tell what gift wants to receive for New year or for birthday. Often the child cannot express those emotions which he experiences when he was offended by the boy with whom he fought in a sandbox. It is necessary to let the child know that words are an important tool in communication and expression of thoughts.
Parents have to render to the child the feasible help in development of his inquisitiveness. Encourage questions of the child and all the time answer them in detail and accurately. Sometimes children ask silly questions, it is not necessary to be irritated on them, not correctly to react and by that not to give him the chance to receive answers.
The trust between adults and children is very important aspect. Especially important it when the child goes to the first class. Here it meets absolutely foreign person - the class teacher, it will open for it the new world of knowledge. Therefore if the child has no trust to the teacher, hardly he will be successful in training. It is important to impart to the child trust in the relations with adults. It consists in respect of seniors. And if the child shouts at adults and threatens, then it is a serious occasion to think and reconsider something in his education.
If the child sees in you the friend, opens for you all the experiences and secrets, means to you it was succeeded to gain his trust. The trust plays very important role in its development and in further formation of the personality.