"Friend in court is better than a penny in purse!" - this saying developed in times when the specified sum was very impressive. Certainly, you will not buy true friendship not at any price, nevertheless the saying underlined once again: friends should be valued! When the child grows up, nachiat with confidence to speak, play with other children, he chooses to himself the first friends. Of course, mom and dad want that their kid communicated with good, kind, well-mannered children.
Instruction
1. You remember: everything is good in its season. The two-year-old child, even willingly playing with other children in a sandbox, will not consider someone from them as the potential friend or the girlfriend – he is still too small for this purpose. Respectively, councils of parents will be senseless: "You would make friends from Petenkaya, it is such well-mannered and quiet!" or "Be on friendly terms with Dashenka, such nice girl!" The kid just will not understand what from him is wanted. But it is necessary to tell him about friendship!
2. Read fairy tales and children's rhymes, you watch animated films with the child in which it is told about friendship. It is necessary in order that the accurate thought arose in the head of the kid: Friendship – it is good! Let he will remember this word and at one its mention will get positive emotions, it is very important.
3. The three-year-old kid can be already defined more or less accurately: with whom he wants to be on friendly terms and with whom - no. At this stage show sensitivity and patience, remembering that logic of the adult and the child – absolutely different things. For example, there was such situation: your kid does not want to be on friendly terms with the good, kind boy because at that defect of appearance. And with children's spontaneity answers the question "Why You Are Not on Friendly Terms with Him?" - "Then that it is ugly!"
4. Softly, but persistently convince the kid that sincere qualities are not connected with appearance in any way. Here some instructive fairy tale (like "Ugly duckling"), the parable or history from life will help.
5. When the child becomes a little more more senior, surely explain to him in what the value of true friendship. A task of mom and dad – to inspire in the offspring that the friend should be helped, to share with him, to hold from bad acts. Without demanding anything in exchange, without asking a question: "And what I from it will have?". Then the friend will do the same with him.