Some remember times behind a school desk with warmth and nostalgia, someone will feel ill at ease from one word "school". Often the victims of bullying belong to the second option. Namely the school students subject to prosecution or attacks from several schoolmates or all collective. It was lucky children who on themselves do not know what is school persecution. But such problem is particularly acute in modern society. And if sometimes the person himself provokes negative attitude to himself, then often behind it there are deep internal problems, at the same time not always that to whom aggressive actions are directed.
What is school persecution dangerous by?
In the sharpest cases the persecution leads to physical damages, the child can be beaten or crippled somehow. The whole group can wait for him after school or get intentionally a ball on the head on physical education.
Bullying at school often comes to an end with serious experiences, violation of psychological state of the person. Because during the teenage period the emotional condition of children is especially unstable, general persecution can lead to very serious consequences. Beginning from uncertainty in itself to lack of desire to live.
1. Because of persecution at school the teenager's self-assessment can seriously suffer. Owing to what complexes will begin to be formed. Even frequent comments on a figure can lead to various number of psychological diseases, including widespread food frustration then.
2. Because of bullying the progress of the child often worsens. Because of internal experiences it cannot focus on study. Persecution promotes formation of phobias and depressions.
3. Because of persecution at school the child can have problems with communication in the future. Subconsciously he will build barriers, being afraid of repetition of negative actions in its party.
How to overcome persecution at school?
At current situation his parents have to greatly help the child.
- The address to the psychologist can help. It is worth remembering that in family the child should not be in a position of the victim at all, otherwise it will be projected for the rest of life.
- To give moral support. Parents are a support for the child, he has to understand accurately that, despite difficult circumstances, in his life there are people ready to support him and to be near in any situations. At the same time it is worth showing that the parent will just not wait for changes together with the child, and will help to look for an exit from the developed history.
- It is worth struggling with fear. It is recommended to explain to the child as it is correct to fight back in a situation of moral attack. That it is not necessary to be afraid of peers or punishment of teachers. The example the parent has to show that such self-esteem.
- It is recommended to look for additional options for self-affirmation of the child. If at school he cannot realize completely himself, then it is worth finding a circle on interests. Classes to favourite affairs lift a self-assessment and instill internal confidence.
- If the situation at school reached critical values, schoolmates strengthen pressure, and teachers do not take any actions, then it will be best of all to replace school.
- It is impossible to accuse the child of such behavior of schoolmates at all, it is worth understanding the causes of such consequences.
Persecution at school this quite widespread phenomenon because of which thousands of school students around the world suffer.
That the child did not fall a victim of persecution it is necessary to develop since childhood in it feeling of self-esteem, confidence, ability to stand for himself. Then many serious consequences can be avoided.