Features of development of inner world of the little man are directly connected with his age. To understand the child the parent has to study fundamentals of children's psychology for long before, actually, becomes the parent. In the same sense at different stages of growing of the kid consultations with the children's psychologist will also be useful. They will help to understand how to build the relations with children at any given stage of their growing.
It is required to you
- - studying handbooks on children's psychology;
- - consultations of psychologists.
Instruction
1. From 0 to 1 years. Remember one important rule of the first year of life of the child: about one year it builds the idea of the world, proceeding from the relations with mother. Mother, in fact, is also the whole world and the loved one for the kid. Since the child is not capable to care for himself, these duties are carried out for him by mother thanks to what it grows and develops. But you do not reduce the relation with children only to food and change of diapers. Your task is to surround the child with love. If in the first year of life the child feels care, so his trust to the world grows. And in the future, with other people it will be not so difficult to it to build the relations. Do not miss this major stage in his life. Give to the kid the maximum quantity of love.
2. From 1 to 3 years. Give to slightly grown up kid the chance to begin independent development. It coincides with a stage when the child takes the first steps and is already able to control natural departures. You do not leash its all the time. Wants to rise on legs, allow it to make it. If he plops down on buttocks, having taken couple of steps - nothing terrible. How differently will he learn to go? At this stage it is important to young mom to hold an objective picture of the events. Attempts to stand independently on feet - the first steps to formation of character. Do not prevent the child to progress to do everything by the habit for him.
3. From 3 to 6 years. Such important quality as initiative actively develops in this period of life of the kid. The child behaves vigorously, he manages to glance everywhere. During this period he asks the parents huge quantity of questions. Your task is to answer them patiently. Features of development of children at this stage of that demand. They form inquisitiveness, commitment. Agree, very important qualities. In every possible way contribute to their development, encourage the little why-asker in his researches.
4. During from 6 to 12 years the child learns to set the purposes and to try to obtain them. The diligence, assiduity develops. Perhaps, you should maintain these qualities in it. Try to control its achievements in school, but without pressing. The child has to understand that to receive good marks - in his interests. Its future depends on the level of its education.
5. One of the most difficult age periods - teenage. At this stage help children to find the identity. At this age the children seek for creative realization. Do not block this search of, do not close the child only in his duties. Be able to listen to him and to understand what he wants. Support its positive initiatives, trying to protect from undesirable communication and addictions. Carry away the teenager own positive example.