Sometimes young parents of one child tighten with the birth of the second kid because of fears that to mom it will be too heavy. Really, appearance of one more family member lays down additional load of both parents. The second child is even more moral and material expenditure. But there are some tricks for the aid to young mom allowing to unload her easier to cope with education of several children.
Delegation of powers
Often young mothers do not trust any affairs to the husband, grandmothers or other people. When the second kid is born, it is much less free time. During this period mom is simply forced to ask someone about the help. To unload itself, it should learn to charge affairs by another. To bring documents, to call policlinic, to buy diapers in shop – all this tasks with which the husband will quite cope independently. Perhaps, the first times should be prompted a lot of things to it. But after all young mom if she does not want to bury herself in household chores and problems, should depart from a position "easier itself I will make".
Day regimen
The accurate daily routine very much helps to unload to mom of several children. The dream, meals and walks always have to be in identical time. So more usefully to both children, and their parents. Mom always knows when she has time for preparation of a lunch and rest. If day passes chaotically, then she will only strongly be tired, but nothing at the same time will be in time. A large number of walks does not take away a lot of time and forces at all as some mothers think. On the street of children it is easier to entertain. And than the family spends outside the house more time, subjects it is less then a priborka. It is the fact checked by many. It is possible to send the husband who already came by that moment from work for the second walk: and it is useful for it to stay with children, and mom small rest.
System and order
Children should be accustomed to an order in every sense of this word too. If parents, straightening a bed, shift a-legged toy, then then they will demand long and without results from kids of respect for purity in the house. In everything there has to be a system: at each thing the constant place on which it is removed at once as it did not become necessary. Played the designer before getting books or other toys, move away him into place. At first it should be done together with children or for them. But soon kids will understand everything and will get used. Requirements of respect for purity have to work always and to all family members.
Car
Existence of the rights very facilitates life to young mom of several children. With two kids it is much easier to go to policlinic by own car, than by tram. In the presence of own transport young mom will spend less time for some affairs: will quicker go behind products or will take away the senior child from a garden.
Several children it is obligatory for Mame to find for himself time, to be engaged in something special. To have an opportunity for a personal hobby, it is possible for it and it is necessary to use the help of the husband, grandmothers or close friends. It is not necessary to take you all burdens and cares of family with several children only on own shoulders.