Once each of parents faces a children's hysterics. Its signs cannot be mixed: this fulling on a floor, tears, loud shout on any refusal of the child. And any ways to agree do not lead to anything.
In general children's hysterics are necessary for development of the kid as persons. Without it anywhere. Absolutely mladets draws attention of parents with shout as in a different way he is not able. Maturing, the child wants his desires to be met. And the fastest and certain way of their achievement are hysterics. And the kid checks the parents for durability and suits them not only at home, but in places of a congestion of the people: in shops, playgrounds. The patience of adults also not a limit, behavior of the child causes a squall of emotions - from irritation to rage and rage.
What to do and how to calm the child?
The first that needs to be made is to avoid emergence of the hysterics. For this purpose it is necessary in all ways to switch attention of the kid to something else. Generally works at children up to three years. Here it is important to do not pass that moment when already the child does not manage to distract from a hysterics. It is possible to help if to embrace him and pogrusti together with it. So understanding will come quicker, and negative emotions will dissipate.
If nevertheless not to avoid a hysterics, and the child is in that a state that does not hear you, then it is necessary to carry away as soon as possible the child from the place of the beginning of a hysterics, to leave in the room without the objects dangerous to the child. It is necessary to inform the kid at this moment that you, despite everything, love it, but you do not approve his behavior. But as soon as he will calm down, can leave and analyze the behavior together with adults. In this situation the main thing to parents to keep calm, otherwise the advantage of this method will not be.
One more way of fight against a children's hysterics is an elimination of all audience on which ""show"" is designed. That is, when loud shouts and the child's cries begin, it is necessary to stop all arrangements, entreaties, requests, explanations and to go to other room. At the same time it is possible to tell that you are very offended and upset that so everything left. Do not criticize at this moment of the child, have patience. Let the child will understand that there is nobody who could appreciate the loudness and force of his voice. The interest of the child to shout will disappear, he will calm down and will leave to be reconciled to you.
Also wherever the kid arranged you check on durability, keep in mind that the behavior of adults under any circumstances has to be identical. Of course, at the child's hysterics on the street it becomes a shame to any adult with action of the child. But only it is so possible to overcome this act. If the hysterics occurred in the place of a congestion of the people, the child should be brought to more quiet place and to allow to calm down. All family members have to adhere to one tactics of behavior, other of results any will not be.
If it is accurate to carry out everything, then soon you will see that the kid will become more rare to go into hysterics, and all his attempts to achieve the desirable in such a way will be nullified.