At the small child the mood very often changes. Children active and curious, they spend all the speed for studying the world, new to them. When the child learns new words, he with a bigger speed studies new information, but can not always express it in words that can strongly anger. Add here also fatigue, feeling of hunger or thirst - the reference hysterics at the child will turn out.
How to calm the child?
1) Try to avoid difficult situations in which your child can appear. For example: You are going to go to shop when the child wants to sleep or is hungry.
2) Ignore a hysterics. If process takes place without mutilation and also without damage of property, then ignoring of its actions will be the best behavior of you. When the child does not see that his fruits do not bring desirable result, it calms down.
3) If the child does harm to himself, others or property, then put him in a chair which stand in the corner. Tell it that he will be able to leave a chair only when he calms down. If he understood everything, calmed down - allow it to leave a chair and praise for good behavior.
4) You praise the child only when he completely calmed down, but not in the course of a children's hysterics. The premature vainglory will suggest the kid an idea that it is far more favorable to go into hysterics and receive for it certain pluses. And aggression from the parent will not teach the child to behave, looking at the shouting or fighting father or mother.
5) Allow the child to resolve certain issues. The child will treble a hysterics can in case you forbid it to do something most. And he just learns the world. If there was a task, and the kid wants to solve it, then as the clever and reasonable parent provide him at choice several decisions, and let he will choose from them one. For example: what footwear he will choose for walk. Or what he wants to eat for dinner: chicken Kiev or sausages. So you will limit the choice, but also will allow the child to express his will.
Council: If the child does harm to someone and also if the child has constant hysterics, then your child will be helped by consultation of the children's psychologist. He will prompt as it is better to arrive in the circumstances as at each family it is individual.