If you learned that your child differs from the peers, both physically, and psychologically, you should not panic at once. It is possible that this temporary phenomenon, but if the serious diagnosis is made to the child, it is worth thinking of its further development and education.
Physical or mental problems of the child bring suffering to parents and induce to do the difficult, but optimum choice.
Boarding school
Nobody has the right to condemn parents for refusal of the child who will never be able to lead normal life among people. When kids are born with a Down syndrome or a cerebral palsy, the staff of maternity hospital suggest to write from them refusal, not everyone will cope with this problem independently.
Sometimes the disease of the child is shown much later, he begins to lag behind in development and to degrade physically. There can be symptoms of autism, and as a result of a trauma the child can become a disabled person.
The room of the kid in a special boarding school becomes the decision of many parents. In it there is nothing shameful. The few have an opportunity to devote the life to the sick child, it is necessary to be valid on it, health, a financial opportunity, time for constant supervision also ensuring appropriate medical care.
House education
If parents undertook an obligation for education of the disabled child, first of all, they have to have a financial base for implementation of this step, it is necessary for such child much more, than usual. One of parents has to leave work and look after the child, carry him on doctors and spend a lot of money for consultations, drugs, holding procedures. And, quite perhaps, all this will be vain, it is necessary to care for the child all life. When parents understand it and accept possible adverse succession of events, they should meet negative attitude to their act, condemnation and misunderstanding. It is better to stop such talk at once, answering that it is your child, you love him and will do everything possible to brighten up to it life. After diagnosis it is necessary to collect about it any data from the Internet, books, to address the best experts. It is also possible to get acquainted with families which raise children with the same diagnosis, and having communicated to them, to share experience or to gather something useful to itself. It is possible to try to send the kid with an easy kind of disability to a usual preschool institution or even school. For children with more serious forms of a disease there are correctional kindergartens and schools. Training is provided for children with problems of a musculoskeletal system at home. It is better for hearing-impaired or visually impaired children to be engaged in a special boarding school where to them will help to adapt to the outside world. You should not forget that it is necessary to give the chance to the child to develop the interests.