The most frequent age of the beginning of visit of kindergarten is the third anniversary. At this age the child begins to self-identify, he wants bigger independence and freedom of choice. The campaign in a garden is a duty. Nobody asks the child whether he wants it. The mode in a garden does not promote freedom of choice of the child too. The child can give a hostile reception to all these violations of own freedom which at this age is so necessary, showing aggression, taking offense and being capricious. And still parents are able to reduce the probability and sharpness of manifestation of similar reaction. For this purpose it is necessary to follow several rules.
Instruction
1. It is not necessary to hurry and hurry the child anywhere. For him it will be a stress, and the stress provokes negative reaction. You should not think that the child hesitates specially to annoy parents. If parents lack time for collecting, means it is necessary to set the alarm clock for earlier time.
2. Parents have to get up before the child. Having made the morning affairs in silence and tranquility, it is possible to awake the child. So parents will have an opportunity to help him with something or just to keep the company. The joint morning exercises will lighten the mood not only to the child, but also parents.
3. It is necessary to talk to the child more. Obligatory after a garden to ask about news, to discuss as there passed it day. And even if some events for the parent seem insignificant, it is necessary to remember that if the child speaks about it – it means important to him. It is not necessary to wave away, it is necessary to take an interest in his point of view rather.
4. In time, free from work and a garden, the parents have to spend more time with the child. He should not feel that after the beginning of visit of a garden the parents began to pay it less attention. There have to be certain rituals, traditional classes of the child with parents.