Many parents face that after the beginning of circulation of the child in kindergarten at it the number of diseases sharply increases. Parents (usually to mothers) should leave on hospital, to stay at home with the child. But after recovery literally in several days the child can get sick again and everything begins anew. Mom from behind it can have problems at work, she begins to be nervous.
In medicine there is a special term – often ill children. But also parents should send such children to a garden. Someone is simply forced to come to work as on the salary of one parent not to support family. Someone worries about inclusion of the child in society. Anyway, the child goes to a garden and circulation of diseases begins.
It does not bring anybody pleasure, and it is just necessary to fight against it.
It is necessary to struggle with diseases not only by means of drugs and medicines. The state of health of the person is very much affected by its psychological state. At children this interrelation is expressed much stronger, than at adults. Therefore one of components of fight against diseases – creation of favorable psychological climate for the child.
First, it is necessary to make stay in kindergarten by the most comfortable for the child. It is possible to accompany daily morning farewell with some ritual which creates to the child good mood. For someone it will be just kiss on the cheek and embraces. Someone needs something else. Here parents should observe the child and to include imagination. Secondly, it is never necessary to break any promises connected with kindergarten. If the parent promised to take away the child today a bit earlier, then the promise needs to be kept by all means. Otherwise the child will be subconsciously afraid that next time mom or dad can not come, though promised. Thirdly, it is necessary to avoid to abuse the child at rise and morning collecting in kindergarten. It creates negative fixation on process. And that to avoid it, the child will resist awakening. Even if parents hurry, and the child slowly gathers, it is worth constraining angry tone and to try to hasten it in playful way. Well and, perhaps, the most important, it is never and under no circumstances impossible to threaten with a garden to the child. Words it seems: "Time you so behave, we will leave you in a garden" - the direct road to fear of circulation in kindergarten. Therefore the first step on the way to health and receiving pleasure by the child from circulation to kindergarten is the good mood of parents. It is necessary to remember it even then when angry words just fly from lips.