The bad behavior of children can irritate, upset, throw parents into confusion. There are questions why the child is capricious how to stop a hysterics and in the future to prevent it. There are most common causes of whims and ways of fight against them.
Instruction
1. If your child falls into a hysterics for no apparent reason and does not calm down, will not receive from you feedback, perhaps yet, he lacks parental attention. It is known that for children the negative reaction from adults, than in general any is better. It is clear, that mom and dad cannot be engaged constantly only in the kid. They have also important issues. Means, before them it is necessary to pay to the child attention within half an hour. Then it will be easier for kid to endure the fact that he is not in the center of attention of parents, and it will be able to play itself, but not to roll up a hysterics.
2. Happens that the kid frankly misbehaves and does something to spite of parents. Such behavior speaks about need of the child to feel the personality. It is a usual situation at education of the kid in authoritative style. Let's the child ego-trip, show independence more often. It is good to give him a certain area of responsibility according to age. It can be the simplest household chores and duties which are assigned to the kid. When you instruct the child, do it in friendly tone and include in a conversation an alternative for the sake of appearances. You want the kid to go to sleep - do not order, and ask whether he wants to sleep with light or without.
3. The third reason of children's whims - feeling sick or dissatisfaction of physiological requirements. You should not hope that as soon as the child began to speak, he will report that he wants to eat, sleep, suffers from a heat or a headache. Quite often parents have to guess that some of these factors became the reason of bad behavior. And adults are quite irritable when they were tired, froze or are hungry. What to tell about kids to whom more difficult not only to control, but even to distinguish the emotions and feelings.