In life of each child the leading roles are assigned to the father and mother. But the father not always plays an active role. After work, tired, he wants to have a rest, read the newspaper or just to look at news. But, the child needs communication with the father at all not less mother's.
Father and son.
The behavior of the father strongly influences the child's self-assessment. The father who sees in the child the son – the athlete since childhood will place emphasis on ball games. Such behavior is not admissible, perhaps the child will want to be engaged in another matters. Happens that the father, restrains and derides the child's classes. Thus, the self-assessment of the kid decreases, and the child can lose interest in occupation of which he so was fond recently. The main and most widespread mistake of many men is ridiculing of the son for weaknesses. Expression "men do not cry" is wrong. The boy whose father constantly straightens out and derides, grows at closed. On life goes with a thought that men of emotion cannot show. In family such man will be avaricious on caress and a sentimentality. Give attention to the son more. Take it on fishing, soccer. And anything that it still small. Understanding that the father takes it on "men's affairs", adds self-assessments to the kid. If you make something, you do not drive the child away. Let he will make a feasible contribution to development of your occupation. Happy eyes of your son will be an award.
Father and daughter.
The role of the father in life of the girl is not less important, than a role of mother. It will not imitate as the son, but it the praise and attention from the man are important. To pay attention to a new dress, or to praise how she helped mom to prepare, have to become for dad a basis of education of the daughter. It is important to it to ego-trip as it has a feminine. The relations with boys will depend in the future on that, how closely she communicated with the father. The self-assessment of the baby directly depends on attention of the father. It is pleasant to it when the father indulges her, allows to feel like the princess. In such cases the self-sufficient, self-assured girl who will have a strong, great family subsequently grows up. The father shows to the daughter as far as the man can "be wide soul", and forms in the daughter the correct perception to men. One more important point is the mutual mutual respect of parents. Here the essence which model it will transfer also to the life partly is.