In life of any parent there is a question of schooling of the child to a pot and, as a result sooner or later - great variety of doubts, problems, advisers, complexes, etc. Let's understand as to avoid all this.
I am young mom therefore in my life as life of any parent, there came the moment when in the head questions flashed: how to accustom the child to a pot? At what age? And suddenly will begin to cry? And you never know it will not turn out? But now, to my happiness, this time passed, the daughter goes to a pot, and I can share on own experience with you councils. I hope, they will help you.
1. Tranquility, only tranquility!
When business concerns the child, you have to be absolutely quiet and confident that you do (at least externally), the child feels your nervousness and nervousness, and respectively, will be nervous itself and nothing will turn out.
2. Do not listen to anybody!
It is not necessary to listen to the grandmother who proves that children since the birth to a pot went to her time, or the girlfriend who brags that her child already goes to celebrate need itself — to you on it has to be to spit! Turn to this information a deaf ear, otherwise you will feel some "nedomamy" and will torture the child convulsive attempts of jumping, will think that he is "not such". When and how to accustom the child — your business and nobody it has to concern.
3. All children different
All children have an individual development: someone went earlier, and at someone earlier teeth began to be cut through. The child not the tram and only approximate statistics is provided in books, precisely in time nothing will be. Respectively be guided by your child and his readiness for something. Personally in our family the following situation turned out: I tried to put the daughter on a pot in a year, but she failed buttocks in a hole (it at us the thin person) and it, of course, frightened her — all came to an end with tears; then I tried to put it on a pot after one and a half years, but for the unclear reasons for me she shouted and by force got up from a pot — only then I understood that it just emotionally was not ready to it, in 3 days prior to execution of 2 years by it she just started going to a pot. To my surprise and joy there was no limit. Maybe you have a similar situation and it is necessary just to wait?
4. On hours
They say that usually children want in a toilet approximately in 20 minutes after a meal (possibly at your kid on another and you know the time), and so, if your child does not refuse to sit down on a pot, begin to land the child approximately during need of a toilet — you will periodically get and accustoming will begin. Also refuse pampers (at least in the afternoon if you carry them) — if the kid inflates in trousers, then he will understand that it is unpleasant (in pampers you will not understand it).
5. In a toilet together
Do not expel the child from a toilet — let looks and studies, children are inclined to repeat after adults.
I think if you follow this simple advice — at you everything will turn out, and do not torment either yourself, or the child. Presently early begin schooling in several cases:
1) The child himself is ready.
2) Desire to brag.
3) Economy — funds for diapers is not enough, and to constantly wash the floors, it is hard to clean carpets and to erase.
But if the age approaches 5-6 years, and problems with a toilet still arise — it is necessary to address the pediatrician.
Finally video by doctor Komarovsky on a subject schooling to a pot — what experts think?