Before parents it is worth – protecting a difficult task the child from strangers. When the child to be in not visibility ranges, it forces to worry. How it is possible to solve this problem and not to worry for the kid?
Many parents differently to deal with this problem. Anyone can approach your child while you do not see, and to take away him. Now such times that it is impossible to be quiet for all 100%. Even sometimes take away children from playgrounds at all in sight. For a start It is necessary to tell the child about what it is impossible to do to him. But not all children perceive such manuals in seriousness. Some frighten the kids by stories that disobedient kids are taken away by the uncle in a bag and carries away to the Baba-yaga. But it only leads to children's fears. What option will be best of all? How to be fully confident that the child will be able correctly to behave with the stranger?
Important age
With the child it is necessary to begin to lead discussions from age of 3 years. It is that age when the child can already argue and understand you. The child during this period is very naive and therefore it is worth beginning to work with it. It is necessary to explain to the child that there is with you he in safety and it is possible to talk to strangers only at your presence. If you are absent, then it is impossible to start talking to strangers because in case to offend him, nobody will be able to help. The child has to understand that it is dangerous to talk to strangers and especially with them to leave somewhere. It is best option to explain to the kid about this problem. Let the child communicate with strangers only at your presence. So he will develop sociability, and will get rid of shyness. And then when the stranger will start talking to him, he will not become puzzled and, as a last resort, will escape. It is impossible to intimidate children by uncles with a bag. In case it is caught by the stranger, then for fear the child can not think that occurs. Will think that for bad behavior it is dragged by the uncle and will put in a bag that this punishment.
The instruction for the roditeleymalenky child who can even and not tell less than 4 years about how it is dangerous to speak with strangers and to open for them a door. They still can not understand. It is the best of all to turn it into a game. Take toys and try to lose all situations which can occur to the child. It will help the child to acquire. Situations which can be dangerous to the child: - The stranger suggests the child to be taken for a ride in a car. Your child has to know some phrases which will help to run away quickly. For example, that he is late and he is waited by parents or that dad has the same car, and it can drive by it. - Can suggest to buy the child candies and to go with the stranger to shop. Or will ask to help to find a kitten. Now can take away the child from any place. Sometimes suggest children to go to look on a visit at new cartoons which he did not watch or toys. And then you have to tell about incorrect answers and what it can lead to. And then tell to the kid as it is correctly necessary to arrive in this situation. The child has to understand that it is not necessary to get into conversation from strangers and if already it occurred, then as soon as possible it is necessary to get rid or run from it at full speed. - If the child of Home Alone also vyzvanivat at a door, then It is necessary to tell the child that he answered that houses are dad, but it in the bathroom now. And let the child will call to neighbors in order that those dealt with the stranger. Also the child can frighten what will call the police. - If the child was seized and dragged in the direction unknown to it, he has to shout in all throat and say that it is the stranger, and let call the police. Let the kid bite and scratched, trying to get out from the criminal. After that your child will know what to do. Rules of conduct of the child with neznakomtsamipust the child knows some rules behavior: - Not to linger late on the street. When the child goes in the evening home in dark time let parents meet him. It is worth going along the lit street, not to come into lanes is a perfect place for stealing. - Not to open a door for strangers! - Not to go with strangers anywhere even if it and seems very attractive option of pastime. - Not to allow to touch you, you hold a distance from the stranger. If it is visible that he comes nearer – it is necessary to run! - It is impossible to get into someone else's car or to believe that to you something will be bought. This advice will surely help to save your child. The main thing correctly explain to the kid all complexity of a situation. He has to understand that strangers cannot be trusted.