Sometimes it is difficult to people to place priorities and to define the vital purposes. Among many factors it is difficult to reveal main. For this purpose it is necessary to understand himself.
Vital values
Sometimes because of vanity of people ceases to see the main thing in life and finds all the time for trifles. Later, having looked back to the course of life, he can regret that existed quite so. Then not to be sorry about the lived years and not to wish to start again life with a clean slate, it is necessary to realize the mission in time.
Different people can have various values. Someone gives most of all time to work, favourite business. Another is concentrated on the family. The third devotes himself to charity, the help to other people. And the fourth spends precious time for nothing. It is impossible to tell that there is some universal supreme value in life which needs to pay more attention. Everyone has to define itself that it is important for it.
Sometimes it appears the most complex business - self-determination, arrangement of priorities. But, probably, it is possible to claim that the most important in human life is to live in harmony with itself. Only in this case it is possible to feel happy, to understand in what party it is necessary to develop. Different things can be necessary for feeling of internal comfort: possibility of self-realization, feeling of own value for society, love of the family and so on.
To understand itself
It is possible to understand himself in various ways. Think up life, ideal for yourself. Pay attention to everything: who surrounds you, where do you live, than are engaged. Those several moments which will emerge in your imagination first of all are for you the main. By means of such exercise you will understand how it is worth building the life in what direction to move. Also you can remember the happiest moments of the life. Important, what feelings you had in the most joyful for you the moments and why. The address of an internal look to the past and the careful analysis of the lived years will help you to understand that it is actually important for you in life. Besides, you will see how your values changed with age, during the different periods of life various things brought you satisfaction. It is not less important to exempt the mind from various stereotypes not to take the values popular in society, for personal. Happens that the person is guided on people around, takes their priorities as a basis and tries to obtain approximately the same, as other people, and as a result gets one disappointment and emptiness. Listen to yourself. Think of what will bring joy to you.